April 11, 2014

Declaration Summary: do you ever felt that your actions both with you and with other people affect you in such a way that puts a heavy burden on your shoulders and not let you continue? In this article I show you how forgiveness can heal your life and thus allow you to aspire to a happy life and peace. This emotional burden we can call it resentment (in the case of past actions of other people that you feel that you have harmed), or blame (if we refer to the actions you've taken and that have caused damage in your self and your life). What is the key to put aside the burden of resentment? The key is to forgive, let go of the pain, revenge and resentment. Forgiveness emerges as a remedy that can help you to heal allowing you to get rid of this tension that is preventing you from walking light towards a life better. From forgiveness you can see reality from a different perspective; It is a statement of love and acceptance that opens the doors to a different reality. The Declaration of forgiveness is an act of intelligence since if you do not forgive, staying chained to those people or situations that generate negative feelings in your being such as anger, anger, resentment and rancor. These negative feelings you don't properly predispose to glimpse a present and a future better; It is as if you arrastraras in your being all that crap that gets dirty every day your experiences... By forgiving you choose free of resentment, you choose to abandon the role of victim to decide to be the main protagonist of your life. Forgiveness does not mean they forget what happened in that situation in the past, as well as that does not mean you should stop this repeat. Forgive, nor implies agree with those people or situations that you have hurt or give them the reason.
Bookstores In recent years, who travelled and visited an airport bookstore gave of face with hundreds of books on competitiveness: you against the others, its company against the others, Brazil against the others. ' ' Spirit competitivo' ' it is the name of the game that, theoretically, stimulates in them to the progress, or better, that leads most apt to take off of scene less apt, that constructs the success. ' ' Spirit competitivo' ' it is the maximum expression of the egoism. To justify the behavior that estressa the competitors, destroys businesses and other possibilities of success, the evolucionista theory of Darwin is very used: the species evolve for the survival of most apt, in constant competition with all the others. But it will be that he is thus same? Fritjof Capra teaches that ' ' the more we study the alive world, more we apercebemos in them that the trend for the association, for the establishment of bonds, to live ones inside of the others and to cooperate, is an essential characteristic of beings vivos' '. Complete E: ' ' the extreme aggression, the competition and the destructive behavior are predominant aspects only inside of the species humana.' ' This such ' ' spirit competitivo' ' that we find comumente in the companies and in the politics is, in the reality, a virus. A virus that disdains the search of the common good in the relations politics, economic and social, supreme objective of the ethics. that relegates as plain the game ' ' it gains ganha' ' , forgetting itself that innovation and progress can perfectly be reached in cooperation spirit. that if the cooperation was extensive to all the relations human beings, we could be, yes, there absolutely sustainable.