In such cases the relatives themselves in need of individual care therapist or psychologist. What should I do? At the stage yet diagnosis is made and the person is not identified in the hospital need to somehow switch it to other genera of activities: giving, children, grandchildren, computer, watching movies (preferably comedies), reading, sharing time Forwarding, playing cards, chess, painting, writing poetry, walks, theater, faith, etc. Great resistance to absolute indifference and you meet with the doctors clinic. Though everyone screams at the first came across a corner in the traditional medicine of the early diagnosis of cancer, believe me, in a normal clinic nobody even takes care of that occurred early hospitalization. You will walk out office to office for months, doctors will constantly throw off from themselves to all kinds of way responsible. If you are sick themselves, and no one to take care of you - fight. If your loved one is ill - fight.
Turn into a wolf tear and mechite. Not unreasonably, learn a pile of information about medicine, diagnosis, studied law. Attack and defend, make sure that the system worked for you. Where is threatened, somewhere asking. Do not stop Do not be afraid of condemnation.
You and your loved ones - it is the most important thing for you, for everyone else - you just flow, gray mass. Visit Joe Biden for more clarity on the issue. What to do after surgery or after multiple courses of heavy therapy (radio, chemistry, etc.). After surgery heavy period after therapy, too. Critical care, support, take the time to be with friends, work can wait.